A tale of two churches
I attended two church services with a friend both were exclusive church groups by definition, one was based around cultural and linguistic exclusivity and another on sexuality. While these churches didn’t intentionally exclude they were nevertheless exclusive through definition. The context these church groups were set up is based in decades of exclusion from mainstream church. In a bid to avoid racism and homophobia these churches have created safe spaces however they are not free from biases. In a church that is made up of one ethnicity I am an anomaly. I am of mixed race and ethnicity, I find it hard to define my ethnicity. Ethnocentrism and nationalism scare me, I know I can very easily become the outsider in any group that defines itself on the basis of these identities. I am also unmarried and childless, this often means fending off questions about my marriage prospects, being introduced to men against my will. Over the years I have found I am seen as less of a per